# Top 5 Mistakes Families Make with POLST / MOLST Forms

By [Sandwich](https://www.joinsandwich.com/author/sandwich) · March 12, 2026
Channel: [nb/polst](https://www.joinsandwich.com/nb/polst) · Category: [Legal & Estate Planning](https://www.joinsandwich.com/c/legal)

> After helping hundreds of families, these are the most common and costly mistakes we see when it comes to POLST / MOLST Forms. Don't make these errors.

When it comes to POLST / MOLST Forms, families often learn the hard way what they should have done differently. Here are the five most common mistakes.

## 1. Waiting Too Long

Procrastination is the number one enemy. The best time to address POLST / MOLST Forms was five years ago. The second best time is today.

## 2. Not Getting Professional Advice

DIY research is great for learning, but major decisions need professional guidance. A consultation fee now can save thousands later.

## 3. Not Involving the Whole Family

Decisions about POLST / MOLST Forms affect everyone. Keep siblings and key family members informed and involved.

## 4. Ignoring Your Own Needs

Caregivers who burn out can't help anyone. Make sure you're taking care of yourself too.

## 5. Not Documenting Decisions

Keep written records of all decisions, conversations, and agreements. Memory fades, but documents don't.

## Share Your Experience

What mistakes did your family make? Share in the comments so others can learn.

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